"We are a society that invested its focus and resources on empowering the girl child and we are slowly and progressively neglecting the boy child. THEN, as time goes on, we start acting surprised when the boy child starts displaying barbaric behaviors. We need to stop with this hypocrisy, the boy child also deserves attention and guidance. A functional society starts with giving both the girl and boy equal attention." the next story has nothing to do with the statement above, that was just a simple reminder to you all. So here it goes; I was sitting with my male friends on Father’s day, 21 June 2020 that is. There were approximately 9 of us, 8 males and me. 4(four) of those males happen to be fathers and play a role in their children’s lives and are very supporting, thoughtful, loving and caring for their “baby mamas”, yet none of them received as little as a text saying “happy father’s day“ from those women. I know.. You're probably thinking 'what does that have to