Issue 05: - Stand firm

The solutions to your problems are actually simple. It's just that you make it complicated.Why do you make it complicated? Because you always give excuses.

Excuses are what will cost you your freedom. Not speaking up is what will make it complicated. Being afraid is what will linger and in fear and embarrassment you will remain. I should let you all know that this is absolutely avoidable , there are many ways to make it right for yourself.The first thing you can and should master is OBSERVATION.

Narcissists' (a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves."narcissists who think the world revolves around them") superpower is convincing you that they are victims of your toxicity. Rest assured men, WOMEN  are capable of being Narcissists and they are very convincing. DO NOT FALL FOR IT. you are the victim not her, RECOGNISE!

If you give her love and comfort every time she becomes insolent and rude, you are conditioning her to become insolent and rude more often, because women love comfort and attention.

It also makes you appear lowly to be soft and sycophantic towards someone treating you poorly, and for that a twist of Shame follows.  Your actions could completely contribute to you loosing it, yes, but she led you to it. DO NOT fall for it.It all starts with OBSERVING. OBSERVE,and you will never make the mistake you are led to make.

Just because a woman's upset, doesn't mean she gains the right to treat you like garbage. This is the sign of a stunted woman who needs to find healthier ways to express herself, and more actively practice mindfulness. Don't let brattiness serve her as a power move. Punish it... Just not the way she wants you to do it.

Ground yourself in wisdom, self-honesty, principles and discipline - and this won't be a problem.

Be true to your deepest and most profoundly felt emotions - those of a spiritual nature - rather than the surface level emotions of fleeting hormones, and this won't be a problem.Before embarking on any move, take the measure of your mark or potential opponent. 

Otherwise you will waste time and make mistakes.

Conquer the world,But free yourself of its burden first .If you don't want to be a loser, demand more from yourself.Give yourself the responsibility, give yourself the power. You are powerful beyond measure. Look deeper into who you are. STAND FIRM. DON'T BE SHAKEN.

Soon, I'll be publishing more on Narcissism and Selfishness. Stay tuned and thank you for reading.