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The solutions to your problems are actually simple. It's just that you make it complicated.Why do you make it complicated? Because you always give excuses.

STOP playing victim, you're equally responsible.  A victim culture is a feminine culture. Women are tyrannical(dominating) to the weak, blissfully servile to the strong. In this you can see the bipolarity of personality between how they treat strong men, and how they treat weak men.

True cruelty is to show a woman the horrors of her own nature, to cast a mirror and make her aware of her own ugliness. She cannot handle it, so she must deny it, avoid it, reject it - anything but accept it. Truth is her enemy, which is why showing her herself is cruel.